My
husband and I love to attend charity walks. We have many that are close
to our hearts. Naturally, we also love to take our fur babies with
us. Typically, we are the “talk of the walk,” so to speak. It is a bit
unusual to see five
dogs in a huge pet stroller.
While double checking the itinerary for
PurpleStride 2013, there was a large note at the bottom of the screen
in bold print. It read:
Pets are prohibited at all Pancreatic Cancer Action Network events.
What? We have been attending
PurpleStride for 3 years and have taken our dogs for 2. The volunteers
used to hand out purple bandannas specifically for dogs. So, why the
sudden ban on pooches?
We
have been to enough dog events over the years to realize that not
everyone pays attention to their dogs the way that we do. My husband
and I bring a backpack filled with items that we might need: doggie sun
screen, treats, Paw Stick,
water bottle with drinking tray, etc. But, many in attendance place
their dog (s) on a long leash and hardly watch what they are doing. We
have heard and seen several dog fights. On the other hand, we have seen
very responsible owners that have the leash/muzzle
combo on their pooches and who NEVER leave them unattended.
I
realize that the problem is not just whether or not the dog owner (s)
are responsible. A great deal of it has to do with children. This also
bleed into the responsible parent issue. Allow me to share our very
scary child/dog incident:
Matt
and I had loaded the fur babies into the stroller and were happily
walking around Cricket Park for the Missouri Humane Society’s annual
Bark in the Park event. We loved looking at all of the dogs and
vendors. It was almost time for
the costume contest, so we decided to grab a seat early and start
dressing up our babies. Once the babies were dressed and placed back in
their stroller, Matt and I began to talk. We were not looking at the
stroller because we were sitting right next to
it and knew that we had it zipped shut.
That’s
when we heard the sound of a zipper. I whipped my head around in time
to see a little boy opening the front zipper to the stroller to get at
our dogs. Matt jumped up and told the boy, “No!” and quickly closed the
flap. Where were
this boy’s parents? How could you leave your child unattended in an
area that is filled with dogs? Dogs that you don’t know. Big dogs that
could easily hurt a small child.
I
was shocked and scared. Our dogs are very well behaved, but, they have
all been abused. Theo was even abused by children. But, try telling
that to an angry parent whose child has just been bitten by said dog.
Do you really think that
they will want to hear that it is their fault for not watching their child? Of course not! The dog is demented and needs to be euthanized!
Thankfully, none of that happened. We calmly explained to the boy that he needs to
ask to pet one of our dogs and we will be sure to pick out our
friendliest pooch. That is when Matt came up with a great idea. He
purchased a small padlock that fits very nicely through the bottom two
zipper holes. When we head to an event, the front
flap stays zipped and locked, leaving only the flap on top to contend
with. And I doubt that there is a toddler tall enough to reach the top
of the stroller.
That
being said, flash forward to PurpleStride. We sadly left our dogs at
home and made the journey to Forest Park. When we met up with the rest
of our team, I noticed something:
THERE WERE DOGS PRESENT! I was furious! Had the e-mail been
wrong? Had I left my dogs behind for no reason? That’s when I saw the
sign, bold as brass on one of the event gates:
NO PETS ALLOWED (SERVICES DOGS ACCEPTED). Let me tell you, these dogs were definitely
NOT service dogs! And having a certified therapy dog, I know
what types of identification that service dogs need to have: special
tags, special vests with service dog patches, etc.
And
none of the owners were told that their dogs could not stay! What
gives? If you are going to make a rule, then you need to be fair across
the board and say, “I’m sorry, not pets allowed.” It was on the e-mail
that all participants
received. What I wonder is if the number of dogs comes into question.
If I would have just brought Penny, would the volunteers have said
anything to me? You can rest assured that if I rolled up with all five
in the stroller, I would have been told to leave.
While
I will continue to support pancreatic cancer research, I will forever
be disenchanted with the enforcement of rules and policies at the
PurpleStride event. Hopefully, more dog owners will stand up and voice
their unhappiness as well.